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Flying Broom
One day Timothy came home and told us an alarming incident that happened in school. He told us that his school headmaster visited his class. He told the class children something bad happen. Tim said that a boy named A, flew a broom at a gal name S.
I was horrified when I heard did. I know A, S and her mom. Tim told me that all her baju was filled with blood. I suppose the headmaster show them pictures of what happen to S. Poor S. Later Tim told me that the headmaster transferred A to another class.
I quickly text S mom and asked her about her gal. She told me that S has to go through 2 stitches and probably a permanent scar at the forehead. Immediately, I text her back telling her of a cream that may soften the scar. I know, my doc gave me a tube after I had the surgery. Lazy me, I didn’t bother to apply. However it worked on my little gal, she had a bad cut on her upper eye lid. Now it is almost invisible.
Today, I went to school to find out more about S. She looks alright but her mom was pretty upset because A dad wasn’t sincerely sorry. I sort of expected it because he seldom smile or want to be friends with us. A used to be in the same kindy with Tim. Of coz, A dad is willing to pay for medical but that was beside the point. S mom wanted an assurance from the school or A dad that A will not harm anyone.
Why did A flew the broom? It is because S wanted to go and eat as it was recess time. A asked her to play but she refused. As she was leaving the classroom, A threw the broom at her. 😕
Next, S mom told me that apparently the headmaster didn’t know anything about the incident. Funny that the teacher didn’t report the incident to him. When the headmaster asked the students, the students in the class were able to tell what happen to S and who flew the broom. By the way, Tim was on MC when the incident really happened. Hubby said, he was protected. I told my son to avoid any flying broom. :giggles:
Another thing, I am surprised that Tim could tell me this incident. Meaning, he understood BM because the headmaster spoke in BM.
Bottom line, if you were S mom or A dad, what would you do?
Published on August 19, 2009 · Filed under: Parenting;
19 Responses to “Flying Broom”
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hmm if i’m S mom 1st thing i will do is to scold the parents n the child hahahaha then ask my child to avoid A (im not sure if this is a good advise as we shld learn to forgive)
if im A dad besides apologise, i would at least go n visit them n make sure S is alrite
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Oh dear. I don’t know what I’d do really.
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Mamajo said on August 19th, 2009 at 8:54 am
Mmm…I know this is really a tough decision…since I’m outsider, it is more easy for me to look the matter in different perspective..
A father: I know why he look so not sincere in apologise as he might think that kid is kid and always behave naughty. And, to ask him to give assurance this won’t happen again is really impossible ~ who know this won’t happen again…he can’t scold A and warning A everyday about it….and, also, he is a man ~ man usually not so good in explaing or PR stuff 🙂 (read Man from Mars…..)
S mother: If I was her, I won’t ask school or A father to give assurance, as this is really impossible. Just thanks GOD that the flying broom didn’t hit S eyes…..and don’t put hate at A or his parent…
p/s: I know it is easy to say than do……aiyah..human is human lor
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I have the same thoughts as Mamajo. Getting assurance from school or the father is impossible unless one can ‘remote control’ the boy.
My older son has a boy in his class that bullies everyone ( boys or girls, big or small)…and the teachers gave up on him. They said nobody could control him…doesn’t matter how much caning he got. I always tell my boy to avoid the guy…but sometimes it’s impossible! Tell you ah…school can be quite a hazardous place these days.
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Jesslyn said on August 19th, 2009 at 10:04 am
The boy so dangerous,i think no one want to befriend with him anymore.
Same as Alicia, if I am S mom, I will scold A parent!! (cannot tahan see my girl in blood and kena few stitches)..wow I cannot imagine that!
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this is tough …very tough….
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Tracy said on August 19th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Wow! The boy is only in Std. 1 and he’s such a bully oredi. After the incident, I don’t think A will approach S and I guess the other kids will try to avoid him too. How come the class teacher didn’t know about the incident?
I’ll advise my girl to go far far away from A and run fast fast to any teachers if A tries to be violent again.
But still, kids are kids and accidents do happen.
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michelle said on August 19th, 2009 at 2:23 pm
Tracy: It was during recess time, teacher not around.
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wen said on August 19th, 2009 at 2:29 pm
if my boy did that, of coz i wld offer for to pay the medical expense and apology and even tell my boy to apologize as well, SINCERELY. not sincere, might as well dont say, and i wld sue if i can!
btw, what brand is the ointment? few years scar can gau dim or not?
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michelle said on August 19th, 2009 at 2:41 pm
wen: Mederma skin care.
Magictree and mamajo:The boy parents should be responsible to teach their boy. Not to whack him or anything but he needs to be taught that violence is a big NO NO. If they don’t teach him now, when he grow up, it will be too late.
Bring us back to sharpen our parenting skills.
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sasha said on August 19th, 2009 at 5:03 pm
they are only std 1, so they don’t know that throwing a broom is wrong la. Gotto educate the boy properly. I was in my niece’s sch to meet with the HM cos my niece threw a blade to the fren and kena the eyebrow. They said got blood and all. Ask again, tarak never kena and best fren again. My sis wanted to take my niece off from being the prefect and punish her but the discipline teacher said pls no.. cos my niece is potential head prefect and she will be the asst head prefect next year. So imagine a std 4 yr student, a potential head prefect also can make mistake. Furthermore that guy is only std 1 and he IS a guy-of course ganas abit. So gotto kasi chance and not keep pointing finger to him. If like that how to continue to stay in this sch with all the negative look eh?
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jazzmint said on August 19th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
wow, so ganas one :|….
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OMG, flying broom and those kids are only 7 years old, some are still 6 years old. Now, I am worried coz next year, Alycia will be in Std 1 in a co-ed school some more. Tim is lucky to have escaped the incident.
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Must educate the boy properly. Altho kids r kids, we still need to teach them wat’s right n wrong. Playing rough is 1 thing. But being violent is another. I really hope I won’t ever be in S mom’s or A dad’s shoes.
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lisa said on August 21st, 2009 at 10:47 am
my first reaction, oh my gawd, A is so violent. he hurt somebody just becoz S refused to play with him? where did he learn that from?
even as a kid, we should make them understand it’s so wrong to hurt another human being. doesn’t look like the father is taking it seriously. if the boy can hurt someone for a such a small matter and get away with it so easily, can you imagine what he will become as a grown up?
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Kelly said on August 21st, 2009 at 5:00 pm
That really worries me a lot. Ian will be in Standard 1 next year. I am sorry for S and her parents for what had happened.
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michelle said on August 21st, 2009 at 5:04 pm
Kelly: Don’t worry, I am sure it is one in many many cases. Just pray hard.
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chinnee said on August 26th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
wah…pening man….it is difficult to control when there are too many kids around 🙁
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ZMM said on August 27th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Poor girl..
I think I’ll ground that boy if I were his parents.